I
want to touch on the subject of people living their past in their present for a second….
We all have moments in our life where we have been faced
with the fact of taking a stand and making a change or just throwing up your
hands and agreeing to circumstances. And when I say agree I mean making excuses
for another. In no way does making excuses benefit you in no such way. It holds
you back… It’s kind of like putting a leash around your neck and following your
owner…
When inside do you tell yourself you are tired and can’t
do it anymore? When do you put an end to the possessiveness of another whether
it physical or mental… The real question is what allows a person to become that
obedient person? At what stage in their life did the rode veer to the left and
was not able to make it back to the straight path?? Whether it is intentional
or non-intentional. When do we as individuals find understanding from the past
to have a better future?
We have to understand that when not dealing with those
stages in life and healing from it we are not able to move forward in a
positive mind… In no way can that be possible… I have listened too many and
found out they are scared to visit that past... To open that chapter of their
life and address it head on… if issues go unaddressed in your life how are you
able to move forward in a positive light… Your past will always have a hold
over your present and future. It will find its way to halt you in your steps of
mental progression if left unaddressed.
I have also come
to see that many believe they will be judged by their past. In no way can
anyone judge another that is a form of negativity… if there was less negativity
coming out of our mouths there would be less issues coming up… The term so many
use, ‘”think before you speak”, but not many do. Not many step out of the box
and think first before they react to someone else’s actions or words. Because 9
times out of 10 those words that you are speaking is the truth for your own
life your living. You live those negative words every day. So of course it
becomes easy for you to say it because it is second nature… hmmm… And yes that
is a horrible place to be at. Not being able to stop think and change your
negative mindset because you have been living it so long.
It takes less energy to be happy then to always have a
negative comment being directed at people. Look inside yourself and see what
really is causing you to think the way your thinking and make that change in
your life to become a better you…
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